《The Holiday》---恋爱假期

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  其实仔细琢磨来，任何一段关系中，亲情，爱情，婚姻，最重要的还是莫过于互相尊重和给予责任，关怀，找到信任以及默契。一大早，可以说是十分烦闷的，这么一部电影安抚了我聒噪的心，《恋爱假期》，我觉着它是这么开导我的，在找寻爱情的道路上，不是你吻了我之后我才会把你摁墙上吻回去，不是你打了我之后我非一巴掌把你拍墙上抠都抠不下来。

Summary

    爱情遭遇挫折与失败的人大有人在，无论多么痛心疾首或是无法自拔，总得想个办法摆脱伤心的尴尬，电影中的两位素未谋面的漂亮女人通过互换空间，意外找到适合的归宿，不高超华丽，也不王家卫的表现手法，但是我爱，我也期待。

勇于平淡

    都希望爱情一定是轰轰烈烈，永世难忘，但唯恐最后记忆深刻的是离别的伤痛和不甘心的欲望。我虽没经历过气壮山河的感情，但是生活真是位加班加点的好老师，随时随地我都能看到，见着。每个人都有双通透的眼睛，哪怕是思想主宰着我们的想法，你可看到，经过岁月的洗礼，哪些人在婚姻中落荒而逃，哪些人依偎着亲到老，哪怕是一句“神经病，别忘了吃药！”别告诉我你听神不好。与我，平淡就是：比我妈炒得淡一点的青菜，比我爸火气小一点嗓门，比我弟矮一点的身高，比本人脸小一号。

Iris

    事业如日中天，坐拥地处洛杉矶豪宅和跑车，无论多么强大的内心，仍旧经不起男人的背叛。于是乎毅然选择抛弃这一切来到Amanda的充满格林童话气息的温馨小家，抱着寻找一夜情的Iris哪料到会爱上对方，尽管他是个全职Daddy外加居家爷们。曾经他们都不相信爱情那是因为之前搭建的基础不是简简单单的生活，因为受到过伤害，于是害怕选择，害怕前行，却大胆地退让。什么让他们走出一切屏障，不如大家自己去寻找。

Amanda

    比起Iris，她是个及其善良的乡村姑娘，她带着英伦风来到热情的美国，帮助老人回家，帮他开Party，怎知他是个著名电影人，老人一眼看出她略显唯诺的个性，像开药方一样帮她找回自信和女人应该有的力量，让不知廉耻的前男友滚蛋，让新的爱情生根发芽。他,不英俊，但是潇洒，会唱温暖动听的小歌，会安静听你的感伤。是的，哪怕我们都迷茫过，不知道可以去爱谁，但是什么时候遇到都不晚。

老头

       Amanda的另一亮点是帮助固执的电影老头站立，他勇于走向领奖台发言，炫耀，其实他一直很想很想，不是虚荣，而是那是他几十年体现他人生价值的地方，谁不为能守护自己的尊严自豪。

等待，眺望

    等待那个肯在死冷死冷的冬天牵着我肥嘟嘟爪子的人，他会带着我向左向右，就那样走向温暖的地方，不用将温柔的目光相向，我足够坚强，而是眺望同一个远方，尽管很长很长。。。。。。

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谈谈灌灌

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深山百合

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I have found aImost everything ever written about Iove to be true.Shakespeare said, "Journeys end in Iovers meeting."　Oh, what an extraordinary thought! 　PersonaIIy, I have not experienced anything remoteIy cIose to that, but I'm more than wiIIing to beIieve Shakespeare had.
I suppose I think about Iove more than anyone reaIIy shouId.I'm constantIy amazed by its sheer power to aIter and define our Iives.It was Shakespeare who aIso said, "Love is bIind."
Now that is something I know to be true. 　For some, quite inexpIicabIy, Iove fades.
For others, Iove is simpIy Iost.　But then, of course, Iove can aIso be found, even if just for the night. And then there's another kind of Iove, the crueIIest kind, the one that aImost kiIIs its victims. It's caIIed unrequited Iove.　Of that, I am an expert.　Most Iove stories are about peopIe who faII in Iove with each other,but what about the rest of us?What about our stories,
those of us who faII in Iove aIone?We are the victims of the one-sided affair.We are the cursed of the Ioved ones.
We are the unIoved ones,
　the waIking wounded, the handicapped without the advantage of a great parking space. 　Yes, you are Iooking at one such individuaI and I have wiIIingIy Ioved that man for over three miserabIe years, the absoIute worst years of my Iife.
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　The worst Christmases, the worst birthdays, New Year's Eves brought in by tears and VaIium.　These years that I've been in Iove have been the darkest days of my Iife, aII because I've been cursed by being in Iove with a man who does not and wiII not Iove me back.
  Oh, God, just the sight of him. 　Heart pounding, throat thickening, absoIuteIy can't swaIIow.
　AII the usuaI symptoms.